This Particular Happiness
A Childless Love Story
By Jackie Shannon Hollis
Choice can
be a double edged sword. When couples have the opportunity to decide between
them whether they will have children, it presents a dilemma when the two people
in the relationship do not agree. Choosing between the love of a partner and
the chance to become a parent creates tension. Someone may end up with regrets.
This memoir is a poignant description of the author working through this
situation with her husband. Her analytical review becomes a memorable
exploration of their relationship, and also of her own life experience and what
drives her desire. “Maybe this thing I called wanting a child was a distraction
from a bigger need: to understand why I was here, why I was alive. My need to
justify myself.”
The author’s
sincere soul searching is touching and mesmerizes as it builds in its
intensity. Her history is revealed as she remembers it, and how she feels it. A
picture is painted of her life experiences. The resulting portrait shows wrinkles
from the consequences that left strong emotions beneath the surface. As she struggles
with her inner passions and unresolved issues, she tries to persuade her
husband to change his mind, hoping he will not stand firm in his choice not to
become a father.
In the
meantime the author describes that “Life made a path around the wanting.” Despite
our personal trials and tribulations, life has a habit of moving forward at a
relentless pace. For this family decision, that also sets up a ticking clock
which increases the urgency of an acceptance of a final decision between them.
Can true happiness be found in a childless love story? Join this passionate
woman on her very personal and heartfelt journey of discovery. This memoir
resonates especially with couples who have faced this pull at their heart, but
also it’s a revelation for those who have chosen parenthood. When these
difficult struggles surface the author has a life lesson to share. “Death can
come at any moment. Be present, or you will miss your life.”
Think of
choosing this book for your book club. A readers’ guide is included for a
lively discussion. Jackie Shannon Hollis is a lifelong Oregonian, and resides
with her husband in a home her friends call the tree house.
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